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Michael Harland
Experience
5 years
Based in
United Kingdom
Sessions
Online
Languages
English

Therapist or counsellor · United Kingdom

Michael Harland

BACP

Depth-focused counsellor helping uncover feeling

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BACP
United Kingdom · 394011

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  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Psychodynamic approach
  • BACP accredited

About Michael

Michael Harland is a counsellor who focuses on emotional depth and helping people get beneath surface thoughts to reach real feelings. He practices a form of depth therapy that places emotion at the centre of sessions, and he uses talking as a way to access underlying experience rather than only to solve problems. Michael is based in the United Kingdom and works in English. He holds BACP accreditation and has five years of clinical experience.

Michael describes his work as preferring feeling over thought when that helps a person heal. He explains when thinking becomes a defence, he gently guides people to notice and name the feelings beneath. That approach is often used alongside mindfulness techniques to help people stay present with difficult emotions.

He also uses psychodynamic ideas to look at patterns that repeat across relationships and life stages. This helps people understand why certain problems keep coming back and what might shift them. Sessions aim to make those patterns clearer so people can make different choices.

Michael is cautious about when depth work is suitable. He does not recommend depth therapy for people in an active crisis, for those who have experienced very severe trauma, or for anyone who has had a non-drug-induced psychosis. In such situations he advises considering approaches that prioritise managing symptoms first.

For most other concerns - anxiety, depression, stress, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD, grief, addiction and more - he welcomes conversations about how therapy might help. To begin, clients follow the site's matching process and then schedule sessions according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How psychodynamic and mindfulness work online

Depth work here draws on psychodynamic ideas that explore repeating patterns in relationships and life. This approach helps people notice how past experiences shape present choices and emotions, often uncovering long-standing themes that feel stuck.

Mindfulness Therapy is used alongside depth work to help people stay present with strong feelings. Simple attention and breathing practices are taught so someone can observe emotions without being overwhelmed, which suits issues like anxiety, stress and mood regulation.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to choose whether depth work, mindfulness practices, or a mix best matches a person's needs, goals and tolerance for emotional work. Conversations early on focus on safety, what someone wants to change, and how emotionally intense the sessions should be.

The biography does not specify which online formats are offered, so please confirm session formats before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions around work or family life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also allows people to keep continuity with a therapist even when they move or travel, while the therapist and client together decide how to structure sessions for the clearest progress.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Michael work with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD, addictions, grief, parenting and many other emotional and life challenges.

What is Michael's therapeutic style?

He offers depth-oriented work that prioritises feeling over thought, combined with mindfulness and psychodynamic ideas to help people notice patterns and stay present with emotion.

How much experience does he have?

He has five years of clinical experience working with a range of psychological and life concerns.

What credentials and location apply?

He is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are offered and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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