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Cara Kalakewich
Experience
13 years
Based in
Pennsylvania
Sessions
Online
Languages
English

Therapist · Pennsylvania

Cara Kalakewich

LMFT

LMFT focused on relationship and trauma support

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License and NPI on record

LMFT
Pennsylvania · MF000867
NPI
1033576103

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  • Warm collaborative care
  • Practical skill building
  • Affirming and nonjudgmental

About Cara

Cara Kalakewich is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Pennsylvania with 13 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people who are struggling with relationships, trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression, and other life stresses. Cara emphasizes a warm, nonjudgmental atmosphere where clients can talk openly about what matters to them.

Her work centers on collaboration. She listens to a person's story and then helps name patterns that get in the way. Sessions often look at relationships, family history, values, work, and belief systems to understand how those areas interact. Cara validates what a person has been through while gently challenging habits that keep them stuck.

Cara uses a mix of approaches to meet each person's needs. She draws on client-centered methods to build rapport, cognitive behavioral techniques to change thinking and behavior, and emotion-focused ideas to deepen connection. She also uses tools from dialectical behavior therapy and the Gottman Method when those methods fit the goals.

People come to Cara for many concerns including intimacy issues, parenting stress, grief, body image, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. She also supports people dealing with adoption and foster care questions, attachment or abandonment issues, and kink-informed concerns. Her aim is practical progress rather than jargon-filled sessions.

Working with Cara is framed as a partnership. She helps clients set clear goals, practices skills in the session, and tracks small changes over time. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule based on her availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

Pennsylvania

Languages

English

How Cara’s approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding a person's view. It helps build trust and makes it easier to talk about hard topics like grief, identity, or relationship struggles.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts affect feelings and behavior. It uses practical exercises and homework to reduce anxiety, depression, and patterns that cause conflict.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) brings skills for coping with intense emotions and stress. It teaches techniques for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and clearer communication.

Cara treats finding the right approach as a shared process. She will discuss goals, try methods that fit, and adjust plans as needed. The collaboration helps clients know why a particular method is being used and how it supports their goals.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life and to keep momentum between appointments. Depending on the current session options, online work can allow shorter check-ins, flexible scheduling around work or caregiving, and continuity when travel or relocation is needed. Confirm the specific session formats available before booking so sessions match your practical needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Cara commonly address?

Cara helps people with relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, addiction, anxiety, depression, and related concerns such as intimacy, parenting, grief, body image, and ADHD.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She takes a collaborative, nurturing approach that validates experiences while encouraging change. Sessions focus on practical skills and exploring how life areas interact.

How long has she been practicing?

She has 13 years of professional experience working with people in clinical settings and private practice.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, licensed in Pennsylvania.

Can I work with her if I live outside the United States?

She accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.

What session formats does she offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking by checking the scheduling process, as formats are not specified here.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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